How to live my life after cancer?
by: Natalie Pascale Boisseau The question is similar for everyone, no matter which cancer one is diagnosed with, no matter the stage of the cancer, no matter the treatments or the side effects afterwards. The question is the same, how do I live my life after a cancer diagnosis, after a deep brush with a life threatening disease? Ten years ago, I experienced this first hand when I was given the shocking news that a large tumor, a rare cancer, was growing, invading my belly. The next Friday that week, my primary care doctor called me after hours. She told me, “Natalie, no matter what will happen to you in the next weeks and months, no matter what challenging treatments you will go through, please know that you are not to identify yourself with the illness. You are not the disease.” In the middle of it, though, or even after a series of treatments and surgeries, cancer is the center of your life. So the question arises: who are you? Where are you at? What is next? …